I've only asked out 3 girls in my life and each time I've had success so I guess I'm pretty good. Still with the 3rd even after 4 1/2 years. I did reject one girl though, she was nice, although every time we talked she was extremely kinky. I asked a friend about her and basically she was a undercover town bike, so I passed that up. (In before shitstorm of people saying I should have banged her... she wasn't that great looking either <_<)
Haha. One of my bosses used to bang "The Town Cryer". Cried every time she had sex... "B/c she was so happy" (eye roll).
Ooh, you checky bugger. Not to sound like a big head or some sort of sex master but I've never had any complaints (so far....)
I had one girlfriend (who started talking to me) and rejected 3 other girls (due to lack of interest). The rejections were good-mannered (minus the first one, but I was in 5th grade dammit) and then I became friends with them. If I tried, I know I would have been rejected by a town-gone-city bicycle and a girl 3 years older than me. Eventually you find out it was good you didn't try, though.
Being a girl I never got rejected by one, but I did reject a guy who said he loved me kinda out of the blue. It was one of the awkwardest moments in my life.
Well you know, unless you're a total BITCH you probably will not enjoy rejecting someone because it's pretty awkward
One once I deliberately asked out so far. She didn't realize I was asking her out on a date apparently as I asked her "too smoothly" meaning she expected people to choke and have to spit out their words to her or something? She agreed to have dinner once and see how it went, then discovered she wanted to be serious with a guy she found via Craigslist...by an ad I helped her write. Month later she made out with me while drunk and decided it meant nothing taking my first kiss at the time. The story gets a lot funner from there, and by funner I mean her boyfriend really doesn't like her having male friends who were previously attracted to her and to get rid of them he plays dirty. Probably helped the dude was the first real addict I've seen to weed and likely had alcoholic tendencies.
It took nearly a year and a half to get her to come around, also who lets a 17 yr. old into a strip club?
It's a hit and miss for me really, honestly any rejection half the time is on my really. Some people say if I was back east I would easily score, but go figure. What is annoying is when I go to a bar and a girl dances with me, to all of a sudden turn out to have a boy friend standing right there, question is why do girls that have boyfriends want dance with me?
Hell, you can always be a gentleman to the lady, and thank her for the dance. And say to the boyfriend, "hey mate , your girlfriend wanted to dance so I danced with her and have a good evening Sir". Unless you feel that is too chicken shitty , you can always be cool and get a beer/drink. And if the man wants to mess you up, there are two ways you can go from there, one is to show him you can kick his arse, or you can do something else which helps you in 99 % in all cases, and that is "playing" the lesser man, and he gets his ego boost. And you leave unscathed from the whole ordeal. My old JKD trainer did that a lot, since even though he could probably kick the arse of the guy. Then he had already won the fight, by not fighting. I hope that it is not too philosophical.
Sometimes rejection is good. If I wasn't rejected by this one girl, I would not have met my fiance who is a much better catch. There is a silver lining!
Wow, that's fucking hot... Damnit, I wish we had a town crier. Or any girls with great personalities for that matter. I find girls with ambition, a great sense of humor, and respect for only a few of their selected, privileged friends to be incredibly sexy. That way when I finally win her heart over I can be like, "Yes! I tamed her!". The last girl who rejected me was the girl of my dreams. It hit me so hard that I went skitzo for a year. But I'm over it now. Who cares about her, anyway? There are not many women like her, but I will nonetheless find one of them even if it kills me. I recently rejected a girl because she bore me to death. There was just no passion between us. Whatever I said she agreed with it. But it's not completely her fault that she is the way she is. Her father was (supposedly) a grade-A psycho-narcissist who had a couple million dollars saved away in the bank. He refused to take out much for himself or his daughter. As a result, they lived in a shitty apartment. He gave her 20 dollars a week and a bottomless supply of Craft Macaroni to eat. That was it. I asked her why he didn't use that money and she responded with, "He is a maniac." I don't know if I fully believe her. Unfortunately, I have met someone who did that to me way back in 2007. Although it wasn't completely pathetic of me, insomuch as I was not "begging her to complete me", but reaching out due to my suicidal tendencies. I did and never will I trust so blindly again. Ever. I'm so glad she is out of my life.
Online dating. No one else replied to me, so I thought I should go to the disabled, so I have more of a chance. That didnt work