I know, that sounds like the typical whiny shit but I'm absolutely convinced that many girls do not appreciate nice guys until they reached a certain age >20 (when they dated enough assholes). HOWEVER, there's also a thin line between what I mean when I say "nice guy" and a cheesy douche who can hardly be called a man. Like those idiots who pull off one cheesy compliment after another and always agree on everything the girl says, they usually consider themselves "nice guys" but in reality they tend to be received by girls as nothing more than a boring loser and I agree. Small story: My best female friend here at university started dating some random people and asked me for advice when one guy behaved like a douche when she asked him to go out that night: "what but i have to go to workout, havent gone for 3 days". She was upset and told me blabla "he's such an asshole, how can he just say that to me" blabla I told her "Ok he's a douche, forget about him, he's not worth it." On Monday she told me she met up with him the day after and they had a one night stand. She took the douche attitude as a challenge 1 point for assholes. She's an adorable girl though, but in her experimentation phase (4 years younger than me, 18) so it's a bit hard to argue with common sense LOL.
I have friends like that lol. They tell a girl anything to get them into bed and when it's over they give them a silent treatment - even immediately after intercourse port187 is right though in that it shouldn't be a find one then stick with them and them alone attitude. Settling isn't the worst thing that can happen as you can basically end up with any random girl off the street and yet still find redeeming qualities to stick with them, even the crazier ones, but the world will go a lot smoother with a "you're it until you're dead or I find someone better" attitude as everyone will know what to expect instead of clinging to false hopes.
Read OPs post, that would really suck, I wondered what I'd do in that situation... and I'd probably end up overdosing, although that's more because of the length and trust and everything in my relationship. To be honest, best you leave her, she made a mistake, forgive her, but let go. No-one needs to know that their girl cheated on him, it just complicates over time.
Just imagine I punch the shit out of your bitchass face!! Hey, aren't you in Seattle sometimes? Come the fuck over here. Have a drink. I'm in Vancouver!
Yeah, man. I'm in Seattle every so often. I used to live up there. I moved to California almost 2 years ago and these southern california girls got me going loco! haha I might be going up to Washington this summer. :thumbsup:
Hopefully no serious damage was done to you, man... It's for the better! The thread has been sort of converted into a general relationships thread. Maybe you could edit the original post to reflect that? Just an idea. :shrug:
Done just that. And no harm to me, she even said herself I deserve better, well, after I told her the truth about herself, making her cry.
It is always going to be there for you no matter what, certainly, but come on now. That is hardly a life.
hahaha, don't even joke about that!! xD i'm frightened. the last pm i got from you was a banana going up someone's butt or something.
