Yeah, we fucking cock blocked his ass. He's a stupid fuck. He shouldn't promise his entire life to another human being and then go do something shady this close to his wedding, that is, fuck some random chick just for kicks. I have ZERO tolerance for this type of mindset. I totally understand playing the field (though I never would find myself there) and trying to find someone who you're attached to. Even just having sex cordially, because it's a thing to do and people enjoy it, which is what he was doing. But in the context, he needs to grow the fuck up. I consider it a favor. Either he's getting married to someone he loves, or he doesn't actually care THAT much and he shouldn't be getting married.
I agree, I didn't gain anything from it. And certianly, one way to help him out is let him make mistakes in the hopes that he learns from them some day. The thing is, and this may help pinpoint his personality, is that he definitely made it our business. A sort of flaunt. Showing off. Check out this chick I'm about to cheat on my future wife with. She works at Hooters! She's fiiiine! Guys, how awesome am I? A rebel!? I fully (FULLY!) welcome criticism. I do feel as though I was a bit out of line, but definitely not more out of line than him. I'd love to hear people's comments on this situation.
well the guy, dick or not, trusted you as guys. It's a guy thing not to tell on guys In my experience, human relationships are often far more complex than anyone outside the couple can perceive. Everything happens for a reason, and if he wanted to cheat on her, he'd have legitimate reasons in his mind. Think about it, the dude's getting married. That's the end of his life, you could at least let him go out with a bang!
Well, he's certainly not my friend. I barely had a shred of respect before last night. Maybe we have differing opinions over marriage. Also, judging by the text we got back from the girl (same thing for all of us), she didn't give a shit. I'm quite sure he got what he wanted.
Fuck it man!! Someone got fucked whether he fucked her or not.. At the end of the day it doesn't affect any of us so who cares. As far as I am concerned I would have done the same just on a whim. Perhaps I'm a bastard, perhaps I am an extremely moral paladin like individual that saved a mans marriage. At the end of my day who the fuck cares. I did as I pleased. Now if you would excuse me I am out of wine and I need to go to the piggly wiggly to get some beer. Damn I love being down south!!
No, but I got high with some friends and my whole family could tell. Boy, was my face (and eyes) red!
Yeah I drank last night. I'm drinking now. And I will continue to drink until the alcohol is gone. Let me say though.. As much as I enjoy alcohol at all hours from convenience store and groceries. Why aren't NC Strippers ever actually naked?? Ohh it's times like this that I miss PA and all of our fully nude dancing glory... LOL I sound like such the tit bar roving whacko!!
I spent the entire Christmas day with my brother. His gift to me came about 11:30PM, when he stabbed me in the fucking back (metaphorically, of course). He did the last thing I ever expected him to do to me, and it seems like he was going to try and keep it a secret, despite the fact that I normally hang out with him basically every other night. So my present to him, in addition to the things I purchased for him, is taking away his privilege to have a brother. I don't think anything this serious has ever happened in my life.
Man that sucks really bad... I don't want to be out of line so I won't ask what he did... It's amazing how people you trusted and thought you knew suddenly turn to be the oppossite and just fuck you up... :banghead: Can't say anything to cheer you up
Sorry to hear that AlecJahn.. I don't know if whatever he did could ever be explained away, But for your sake I hope there is a good and satisfying explanation. Cheer up my friend. The world is a harsh place, but that's why there are drunkne threads full of compassionate tit bar enthusiasts and alcoholics to help us through.
I am current;y dunler then i ahave eer ever bene and I have pressed backsapce and it hit the back buttton lol
I'll say there is a female involved. The one female, with seven years of stuff to stack on top. Not just some one-month swing; that would be a "aww, fuck this sucks!" situation, not a life-ruining one. I'm sure conclusions can be jumped to from that. Don't worry about it, I value your thoughts regardless of what you may or may not say to make me feel better. Thanks for the kind words. They mean a lot. I hope I can get through this better than I imagine I probably will. -- It's odd. One of the justifications I heard from his mouth was that I need to get through this. I need to figure whatever out, it's for my own good. So I tell him, hoping it's a proper comparison, that's like saying I need to cut off one of my limbs to realize that I don't actually need it. This situation is unnecessary. I've already lost the second most important thing in the world, her. I've lost the third most important thing, my dog Morgan (silly, I know). He sits at the top. Now it's up to him to figure out whether he wants to really take that away from me, whether it's really worth it to him. I'd like to take comfort in thinking I know who he is, and previously took comfort in thinking he knew who I was. I thought we were on the same level. In the same boat. I tried to sink that ship so hard, and he grabbed it and sped off into the horizon. I just happened to notice where he was headed and what he was piloting. The worst part is that it seemed like it was a big secret. Like it was going to somehow work, on his part, without me knowing. Like I wouldn't see it. Like he could stay behind my back, tearing away chunks of it without me feeling even a hint. I would have consulted him, just after putting him first, without thinking. I'm sure it's been a difficult decision on his part, too. What I know of him, some of the things he has articulated to me in the past, however, is that he didn't think it through. He didn't make an attempt. He blindly put something so... well in this case, and in my opinion, superficial to him before his brother. That's me being selfish, certainly. But I don't care. Thanks, guys. Sometimes it's the little things from people you don't technically know at all that really help someone. Cheers. I don't even know who you are, but I feel I should because it would be so easy considering the distance between us. Lets hang out some random night. I'll provide the chemicals I can. It'll be a jolly old time.
get over it, women aren't to own. they are to be enjoyed and disposed off according to regional regulation
Hey, Im drunken as fuck right now, greetin all of ya guys,! Listening to Orange Dusc: Skeletones. Great track, mind you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I23E7jStDW0 Experimental SHJIT
