My girlfriend of 22 months just dumped me (over the phone no less) relatively out of the blue. Things don't make sense... I'm pretty confused and hurt. I don't know what to do...at all. Thanks for listening... EDIT: Sorry, maybe this should be in the anoucments section... Sorry...I'm not really think right...
Don't worry mate. It happens to EVERYONE !! I'm 29 and have had such an experience 8 years ago. I know just how you feel. People tell you that time will heal the pain and it will but letting go is never easy. I'm in a similar situation now (Feeling wise) and I'm married !! Yakumo
Heck i haven´t had a girlfriend for almost 5 years now, so i know the feeling and some more of other things .
just sleep around for a little while...you'll feel better in a couple of weeks...but I am sorry for your situation. I'll buy you a lap dance:dance
uhh..i was about to make a joke here, but i won't, 'cause it was too easy. :smt043 anyway, i know how it feels too, we're all behind you mate.
I know your feeling, man. The ex dumped me not once, but twice over the Internet - first time because she "accidentally" run into her 37 year old ex-boyfriend, the second one because she met someone (a rich thirty something junior) on a cruise. (By the way, that second boyfriend died over Valentine's weekend, 2004, three weeks after she left me for him.) I was devastated. Even now I get nervous when I log in to MSN and I don't stay for long anymore. So, I know how you feel, brother. All I can say is I'm with you, man, whatever you need, even if I'm just a textbox on the screen and haven't really talked to you a lot. Know that I'm there for you, as a fellow man and gamer. Now I'm really worried, though. My current girlfriend of 18 months told me the other day she ran into her ex. Another thirty something year old. I really trust this one and I know it was entirely coincidental, but I can't help but be VERY wary of the situation - you know, with the past, and all. Worst thing you can do right now is "sleep around". You cannot take revenge on others. This is not a revenge situation at all, it's a situation where you need to heal. You need emotional detoxication first - which means some time out with friends, lots of gaming, and lots of things that you missed from before the relationship. Once you feel you're ready and balanced again (this may take weeks, months, or maybe some six days, who knows) - start dating, if you feel like it. Just dating. Then you'll meet someone really worth your time and care, and things will improve. Good luck, man.
XerdoPwerko, your words of wisdom are fine indeed. Samael64, "Sleeping Around" is a bloody dumb idea. Go out with friends, game, watch movies and all other stuff you like to do. I found when I lost the first real love I had 8 years that another woman wasn't the answer but company was. Yeah, I had female friends but not for sex or anything like that. Company is what you need and lots of it as well as doing your hobby. I cried quite a bit back then because of the hurt so believe me when I tell you XerdoPwerko has good advice. Yakumo
that's my biggest problem right now, cause all i can do is sleeping around. i lost all of my friends in that relationship because i didn't care anymore about them and so do they now, what i can understand, but it was my fault... my gamecube is broken, just as my SNES, i only have my DS left with one game i played through 4 times now, gets boring...there is nothing i can do i started decorating my room and i'm stuck at scratching the old wallpapers off now since one week...i don't get anything done in here life sucks
Good friends always come back, Liquitt. Go talk to them and apologise if you need to. And have those machines repaired, man - you're going to need them, for sure. Also, you could take up writing or painting, and there's always the Internet.
i just need a new gamecube motherboard and just that...i can't afford...so this sucks, hard!! damn, how poor am i ?? i can't afford a new NGC Motherboard, ffs.... and concerning the friends, i tried talk to them, and they turned their backs on me and went off, all of them
I feel your pain on the Gamecube thing. My PS2 has been dead for like 5 months and I still don't have the cash to repair it. I just lost one of my jobs and my paycheck from the other one is one month, four days late. I might get HALF of that today, if I'm lucky. About your friends... I really don't know what to say. You're going to have to go out and start talking to people. Good luck there, man. Find some company. It'll do you good. Edit: Samael - no need to thank us. I speak for myself but I think I speak for all of us when I say we're there for you. Hope things get better.
As yakumo said, go out and try to have fun. After the pain has passed call her and ask for a better explanation.
It's times like these I'm glad I don't have a girlfriend. I feel for you, though. Just go out with some friends to take your mind off of things.
Just like what Yakumo and Xerdo said, do things to get your mind off of her and try to get over it. Once you're in a better emotional state you can try calling her to have her explain, some women do, some don't. If she doesn't answer your calls then forget about it and just move on. Maybe it wasn't because of you, but because of her. I really don't know. Love is a complicated process, but its well worth it, don't give up on it. Every experience you encounter has a lesson, try learning from it and grow/mature because of it. I actually took a Humanities class on Love and it has helped me out tremendously. If you want to keep on talking about it, I wouldn't mind listening. My AIM is mdhtter256
