This really sucks...

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  1. WolverineDK

    WolverineDK music lover

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    Yeah, thanks to both you and Purge, but it is really just a feeling, since she wrote this at another place and posted a picture.

    "the australian woman wrote this"

    " Look who I have been spending time with...she is so mmmmmmmmmmmmmm..."

    the picture is work safe, and i am not using her real nick, to protect her.And the picture is of the girl she has having fun with. And i think the woman(edit: in the picture) is a TS. but the picture is still worksafe, and the woman in the picture is still pretty.

    But feelings are mostly true.When it is serious feelings i have .And you can´t see the australian woman in the picture.
     

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  2. samael64

    samael64 Unintentional Ninja

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    I'm sorry that this seems to be happening to you too WolverineDK.

    And as you said, it may just be a feeling, but feelings are mostly true. I don't mean to be a downer, but after looking back on my relationship I saw more signs that it was comming to an end now then I did then. But I did have a feeling that it could/was going to happen, even though I couldn't explain it and didn't believe it.

    Anyway, hindsight is always 20/20, isn't it?

    BTW, thank you to everyone here, this message board continues to be a big help in getting me through this tough time.
     
  3. XerdoPwerko

    XerdoPwerko Galaxy Angel Fanatic Extreme - Mediocre collector.

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    Whatever you need, Samael - let us know.

    We've all been through it at least once. Yeah, I know the feeling. After it happens, a lot after, you realise what all those little enigmas actually meant - maybe too late for this relationship, but early enough for you to learn for the next ones.
     
  4. samael64

    samael64 Unintentional Ninja

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    Sorry for bringing up an old thread, but i thought I'd add an update.

    I talked with my ex today.
    I'm surprised at how cold and mean she is now.
    I guess I never really knew her.

    It is time to move on.
     
  5. dj898

    dj898 Site Supporter 2015

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    hmm... sorry to hear that man.
    I used to keep in touch with my some of my ex and most of them I was in good term - we even went to movie usually three or four at the same time as a group...
    geez some of them were very good kisser and I'm not talking on the lips... :p

    though when I get married I had to sever all contacts with them coz missus wouldn't have any other way...
     
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  6. g_sepp

    g_sepp Dauntless Member

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    Strippers are only good if they go full nude with friction dances.
     
  7. dj898

    dj898 Site Supporter 2015

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    believe it or not I've yet to see real strippers...
    only ones I've seen are the ones in the movies/tv drama as backdrop...

    my mates when I was in unit were into those but instead we were clubbing on every Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday... till I was 27 and I woke up one morning and realize my body couldn't take any more of abuse and stopped the clubbing...
     
  8. Tomcat

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    Dj898 your in sydney? Grab the train up to Kings Cross Exit out the on to the main street almost oppisite you there is a cool strip joint ;)

    As for the lads who just got dumped, all I can say is keep busy. I lost a very good lass who even 3 years on I still miss. I worked 18 hours aday anything just to stop thinking of her, I couldnt even lie down to sleep i worked myself so my id just instanly sleep. Time does heal as bad as its sound "chin up and bear it" it wont always be like this.
     
  9. Tomcat

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    oh and play some evanesence - my immortal is a good one or any linkin park. Infact any nu-rock stuff
     
  10. dj898

    dj898 Site Supporter 2015

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    I used to go to Peddington and sometimes Oxford street...
    but never went to Cross... it's not the place you go to for serious clubbing back then...
     
  11. Hawanja

    Hawanja Ancient Deadly Ninja Baby

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    Yeah, time does heal. You know what heals extreme emotional distress very well? Violence. Real or imaginary, violence does the trick for me. So choose a good game where the other guy can't die (like say a wrestling game) and just beat the other guy into a bloody pulp. Day of Reckoning for GC is good for this, as it's a good arcade style wrasslin' game where the enemy bleeds. Just set it on easy and beat him down, do flying attacks, slam him through the roof of the cage, hit his ass with a chair, pile drive him, etc. Do that Waterboy trick where you picture the other person's face on the opponent. Then knock them on the ground and stomp on thier face, over and over and over again. Highly satisfying, and a good way to get rid of the blues and work out those hommocidal aggressions. I guarentee you won't think about your EX all day.
     
  12. Tomcat

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    icebox is ok
     
  13. XerdoPwerko

    XerdoPwerko Galaxy Angel Fanatic Extreme - Mediocre collector.

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    Well, Samael, things always happen for a reason. This happened to you because there's something else in your future that will make it worth it.
    Realising that she's a bitch is the first step towards healing. Do what Hawanja does, it helped me a lot when that happened. What really sucked, though, is that my ex called herself the same name almost everyone calls Raiden in MGS2, and that was my favourite game at the time - but I really didn't/couldn't touch the thing for over a year. If your ex's name is not Jack, then play Metal Gear Solid 2. Detonation of soldiers and shooting at the groin are ALWAYS a good thing to get over a lost relationship.

    Edit: Sword of the berserk helped a lot, many fighting games (2D) as well - and many old school things as well - not for the violence but for the distraction. Devil May Cry did a lot of good too, even if I'd had it since it came out.
     
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  14. Taemos

    Taemos Officer at Arms

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    That game does miracles for situations like this. It did for me, anyway. I don't know what it is, but it helps a lot - it's dirt cheap, too :).
     
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