So recently this beautiful young girl came into my life about a few weeks back, and well, I dont know why, but we just connect. But the problem is, she doesn't want a relationship, she's blatantly said that she doesn't like dating. This doesn't really sound like a rejection as she does seem quite interested. But she doesn't want to give me a chance either. So yeah, what do I do? And I'm not looking for answers like, "Move on", I want to try this, I just know it'll work. It just seems she wants to see an effort maybe? What do I do? How do I go about showing her this?
I had a woman in my life that did the same. Showed all interest, would hug me, spend so many days and nights together. I asked her about a relationship because no usual female "friend" would do that sort of stuff...Well for me at least =_= She simply told me, "Why can't we just be friends? We're good friends. Why do you want a relationship?" and all that bullshit... I even said let's try it. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work no problems there at least we attempted. After months and months of hanging out and stuff she started seeing me less and less. :crying: I was depressed for months and effected my study. In my conclusion for situations like this, just keep her as a close friend even though you're interested ><" I wish I did exactly that, cause now we're not even friends any more... Give it time and MAYBE she might come forward... but it's hard to judge :banghead: Best of luck though bud.
It'll happen naturally, or she is just looking for all the benefits with none of her perceived "downsides".
ASSEMbler knows the way of things. That's how it is, women will never permanently settle for anything less than exactly what they want. If they come across something better, they'll immediately jump the ship.
It doesn't mean you can't have fun or enjoy the time with her. Just enjoy it for what it is (if there is sex). No sex? Don't waste your time in finding the right woman for you.
Ask yourself why you wouldn't want a relationship. If she just got out of something long term then i doubt shes ready to jump back in. Fuck, Me and my gf are kinda rocky right now. well at least I feel that way. She did some shit i told her not to, then i had to fix her mistake. Probably gunna get my ass beat because of it. If we break up because of this there is no way I'm even thinking of a relationship for the next year. Don't be drooling all over her every time you see her. Play that don't care stuff. Blow her off sometimes. Make her want you. Coming from an 18 year old^ Keep your money, freedom, and save yourself the bullshit.
I have a poem for this thread by the great poet Dr Dre Snoop] Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks... [Chorus (Snoop (2X):] Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks Lick on these nuts and suck the dick Get the fuck out after you're done And I hope in my ride to make a quick run... [Dr. Dre] I used to know a bitch named Eric Wright We used to roll around and fuck the hoes at night Tight than a motherfucker with the gangsta beats And we was ballin' on the motherfucking Compton streets Peep, the shit got deep and it was on Number one song after number one song Long as my motherfucking pockets was fat I didn't give a fuck where the bitch was at But she was hangin' with a white bitch doin' the shit she do Suckin' on his dick just to get a buck or two And the few ends she got didn't mean nothin' Now she's suing 'cause the shit she be doin' ain't shit Bitch can't hang with the streets, she found herself short So now she's takin' me to court It's real conversation for your ass So recognize and pass to Daz [Dat Nigga Daz] Now as I'm rollin' with my nigga Dre and Eastwood Fuckin' hoes, clockin' dough up to no good We flip flop and serve hoes like flap jacks ([Snoop:] But we don't love them hoes) Bitch, and it's like that This is what you look for in a ho who got cash flow You run up in them hoes and grab the cash And get your dash on While you're chillin', with your homies and shit And how my niggaz kick the anthem like this [Snoop] Bitch!! [Chorus] [Kurupt] ...To the store, to get me a 4-0 Snoop Doggy Dogg paged, that must mean more hoes So I head down the street to long beach Just so I could meet, a freak To lick me from my head to my feet And I'm here, now I'm ready to be done up Nothin' but homies around so I put my gun up Bitches on my nuts like clothes But I'm from the pound and we don't love them hoes How could you trust a hoe? [Snoop:] Why? [echoed 3X] 'cause a hoe's a trick We don't love them tricks [Snoop:] Why? [echoed 3X] 'cause a trick's a bitch And my dick's constantly in her mouth And turnin' them trick ass hoes the fuck out Now... [Snoop Doggy Dogg] I once had a bitch named Mandy May Used to be up in them guts like everyday The pussy was the bomb, had a nigga on sprung I was in love like a motherfucker lickin' the pearl tongue The homies used to tell me that she wasn't no good But I'm the maniac in black, Mr. Snoop Eastwood So I figure niggaz wouldn't trip with mine Guess what? Got gaffled by one time I'm back to the motherfucking' county jail 6 months on my chest, now it's time to bail I get released on a hot sunny day My nigga D.O.C. and my homey Dr Dre Scooped in a coupe, Snoop we got news Your girl was trickin' while you was draped in your county blues I ain't been out a second And already gotta do some motherfucking chin checking Move up the block as we groove down the block See my girl's house, Dre, pass the glock Kick in the door, I look on the floor It's my little cousin Daz and he's fuckin' my hoe, yo (Bitches ain't shit) I uncocked my shit... I'm heart-broken but I'm still locked Man, fuck a bitch! [Chorus] [Jewell] [Dr. Dre in background "Bitches ain't shit"] I don't give a fuck about a bitch But I and her know that they can't fade this 'cause I'm doin my own thingdown with the swang I'm hangin' with Death Row like it ain't no thing I say you know can't deal 'cause I'm a bitch that's real Motherfucker need to step back, hell yeah They need to chill Because I don't give a fuck And I don't give a fuck [x3] And now I gotta do some... And now I gotta do some shit that's clean But when I'm on a dick, hell yeah, I get real mean Like a washing machine I can wash the clothes All the hoes knows That I'm on the floor ho But they can't hang with my type on swang I ain't tryin' to say I suck every ding-a-lang But just the juicy ones With he tip of the tongue And then their sprung With the nuts hung [Dr. Dre:] Bitches ain't shit
Really good adviced Kevin! DaE, well worth taking that aboard :thumbsup: Has any one got any women on their Facebook that complain about relationship problems but still date the same person over and over again?:shrug:
I'll definitely be taking all of this advice onboard Sounds like my best woman friend of all time She cant see them together in the future, she's broken up with him constant times.. But she still loves him.. >_>
Without knowing much about her, it's difficult to know her intentions. She may just enjoy being single and having fun, or she could be hoping to play you like a muppet. Avoid buying her anything until you get to know her better. Players always want to take as much as possible while giving away as little as possible. If you feel like you're falling in love, then you're going to open yourself up to a world of pain. You can't make someone love you back.
I've been in a similar situation were the chick would say I don't want to date,which by the way is bullshit,meaning she doesn't want to date you. For me I ending up banging this chick but she is batshit crazy so I have my good reasons on why it never worked. My best advice is just play it by ear but don't get to wrapped up into her.
That sucks, I've surely deleted well over 10 women from my Facebook friends cause of their stupid statuses about this one person they keep breaking up with... Now where did I put my shotgun?
I don't have such friends, I left them all 8000km away where they belong (in Europe). When I got here, I made sure not to befriend this attentionwhore trash lol.
She hasn't gotten old enough to realize he's as good as she will get. Once she hits oh, 35 she'll go for him. The urge for children is too strong by then.
LOL every one does that XD About some months ago there was one I was interested in, she just complian about her skaterboy boyfriend, who lives in another state So I try aproching her, and she looks interested. But some time later I realised she was trying to use me to make her bf jealous, so I just walk away. Now she dont have a bf anymore and complain all the time on facebook off being alone XP I simply dont waste my time with girls like this anymore, if a girl does something like that, I just walkaway and dont talk to her anymore, saves me a lot of trouble and time. Now for you trouble DaE. Try to give her a cold shoulder for some time too see her reaction, if she dont try to keep in touch with you, them shes not really interested. Just dont try to be kind to her with gifts at this time or its all over. Thats my suggestions based on my own experience.
I think it's too late for the cold shoulder approach. If you have already broached the subject of having a relationship then she knows your intentions already and she will always have that in the back of her mind. My advise would be to just do what feels right at the time BUT don't let her play you for a fool. If something is going to happen then it just will!
At the time I haven't really had a female friend since High School, so I was in a trance with this girl when I met her... Hell even when I was friends with her, she'd say she would want her ex back.. (after he bashed her, mind you!) She wasn't worth it at all :nod: What your doing is a very strong approach and I should learn to do the same Always keep in mind as well. There are plenty of other women around. I know it's a little difficult to do that especially if you're really attracted to her. Just keep telling yourself there are other girls. Now when I think about it, every girl I've seen before would of been pointless... They do all the above -_-.
