this may be why she wasnt interested mate, try a softer approach lol P.S. when you get to uni what you have just described will be your average morning so dont panic
Eh, off the alcohol, think the majority of the issue passed. Just a depressive phase and a easy way to deal with it I guess. Worked well. And to address the cigarette eating incident.. It was more of a "Why am I not dead" kind of thing.
Yeah, get out there and do something fun. Force yourself to do it. Is there a theme park somewhere, a suspension bridge, a beach, anything like that? Convince yourself it'll be for the better, and at least you'll be distracted. I know very well how it is to be super focussed on one thing and not be able to think about something else. But there's so much... and so many girls to go for You never know, maybe you find the right one on the beach or in the theme park you'd visit. Couples who've been married for 25 years always tell the same story - we met at a party, friends introduced us, we talked to each other at location X... they probably didn't think they'd find their partner for life when they got up that very morning.
That last very line gave me so much hope, you're right. Have a happy approach to every morning, and you never know!
Me and my exgirlfriend started like that, too bad it didnt ended up too well but...lesson learned. But one thing they all say its truth: you find a person you like when you less expect
Very good advice. I met my wife at a party. Just have fun in life and try to meet as many people as possible.
I'm not sure if it has been said, but OP is in the friend zone. If she doesn't want to be in a relationship, go for FB, unless of course you're in the friend zone. Which you need to get out of ASAP.
Him eating cigarettes, drinking heaps, being uber depressed over one girl. And when I say uber, I mean uber.
Oh, the "he can salvage this?" Yeah, actually I agree with you. OP, please find yourself another girl and avoid the friend zone.
