Fifty three words: Okay, deep breath, now reach into your soul and pull out that tiger-chi and yoganize it until you reach the flammable cortex... Soon all your troubles will come to pass and you will be in a zen like state with her - together, floating around the nimbus of love like two butterflies pressed into pastry.
I decided to say it how it was to her. Quite honestly, it seems like she was just hurt in a previous relationship or something. Gave her a nice long message on Facebook, as she really isn't letting me have any time to talk to her alone in person. Guess I know what I'm doing this weekend.. :smashed:
That sucks man. You should call some friends and do whatever you like most to dont fry your hear thinking about it.
Well there is always cake, and online gaming Don't feel so bad, at least you know and then again not tearing your hair out. From the last experience I had (I hope this is last time I remind myself of this bitch) I'm just going to be straight forward with the next woman I meet. What bothers me the most though, is when a woman judges her previous relationship on you. It's like, what we're all the same now are we? -_-
That's the thing, she made the conversation sound like I'm just there to take advantage of her when quite honestly, thats not even on my mind. I just want an excuse to do things, hah, figures.
Moral of the story: She asks to have some space and maybe talk later on (Obviously never) And you lose a bestfriend because you spent time with her. ;/ Fuck, why did I bother? Why couldn't I have kept my mouth shut and just become good friends. FUCK FUCK FUCK. Worst day this year..
It would be worst, trust me. You would ended up always having the hope of something hapening someday and would see her dating other people, making you fell bad and not allowing you to think in another girl. Theres not an easy way, its like medicine, the worst it tastes the better it works. Not very conforting words, but true words. Try to not overthink about it. Best wishes
If she was a true friend, she would of stuck by you... This is the thing I learnt with this "bitch" I met last year. She just couldn't deal with it or understand me and just took the easy way out, by keeping secrets. It bothers me and will bother many other people who ever meet her. Also, Padoca85 hit the nail on the head with his post above. :thumbsup: It's horrible, and I can somehow relate to what you're feeling right now. Take it easy buddy. She's not worth the pain...
Its sad how everyone can relate to everyones women problems, the same girls exist everywhere, kind of sucks if you think about it.
=( So I ended up drinking an entire bottle of Russian Standard, hung over as fuck. And I dreamt of her with me.. ;/ My own mind fucked me over.
You'd rather sit next to her hoping for things to happen because you'd be too afraid of rejection? That sounds like a really shitty way of dealing with things, I think the path you chose is way better in the long run. And you'll get over her, like one gets over every failed dating attempt. I can understand your feelings of revenge very well, but it's not worth it. And because you can't harm her emotionally (because obviously she doesn't really have much emotions for you), it would only hurt you in the end. What I mean is: instead of trying to attack her directly, you should kill someone who is close to her!..... Just kidding, Lol. Just let it go. If it started like that it'd probably be a shitty relationship anyway. Lots of problems that you'd have to deal with. I find that nice relationships should start off really easily, and, most importantly, with mutual interest. If you're the one who's always running after her like a jerk, she's not worth it.
I've wanted to do the same... You did the best you could, she led you on and believe me, it happens a lot. I'm sure most of us have been led on before, if not recently. By asking her on a date you found out. Better than keeping quiet.
Pretty much what ave said Even if you do something to hurt her, someone always appears to confort her, and she she will forget about what happened pretty soon, later on, will despise this new someone and say all men are worthless. A girl is only alone as long she wants, theres will always be someone to confort her if she wants. I know youre thinking like, they dont how the situation, how I fell, shes special, etc. Belive me, all women are the same and want the same things, pretty much as us man, but we dont make the life a giant puzzle like they do. The most important thing on the start of every relationship is having the hand, if you show youre too interested, she loses her interest. Its all a big game, and we all know theres no fun on a game thats too easy to win.
I don't agree. Depending on how good-looking a girl is, she might be able to get laid anytime - but finding someone who's capable of comforting her isn't much easier than finding a girl who comforts a man. If the guy is just a hook up, he won't have much interest in comforting her.
Yeah, I mean a good-looking one. Men over here usually confort the girls for some time before getting laid, dont know how its in other countries.
So yeah, got drunk and posted some quite mean status's on Facebook, someone even tagged her so she noticed it.
