10yr Relationship has ended.. need tips!

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Wow, BC is that an offer? :lol: That aftershave is MIGHTY powerful stuff! :evil:

 

we're no strangers to love...Parris :lol::lol::lol::lol:

 

I've just gone out of a 2 year relationship...
I feel like I'll never hook up again with anyone... I'm such a nerd that no guy will understand me....

Put me out of my misery please

 

shut up and build yourself some character. When you're going through hell, keep going. It's a fact that you ll get laid again and the sooner you put ur mind to it the better your chances.

 

Well I boned my house mate again. Things are getting awkward now though...I'm really into her and I dont think she wants shit.

Did something really stupid and told her that. Last time I'll see that vagina I reckon.

 

As in you told her [you were really into her and didn't think she wanted anything?]

It's so lame: You sit and be cryptic and quiet about things, and you cruise around getting very little done. You be up-front and feel better talking things out, and you get a hammer in your forehead.

 

Well ive spent the last 7 nights with her and got plenty done, but today I was fed up of it being this secret thing we cant tell anyone about, and yeah although I love getting action it couldnt carry on without getting more complicated so I told her that I didnt wanna carry on anymore without it being more serious. She just said ok thats cool that we should stop.

So basically ive fucked myself, unless shes just playing hard to get again or something else.

Shes a total head fuck but totally worth it.

 

They're always the best ones, right? shit!

 

Hey no problem Twimfy, just get on to the next one aren't there like 3 more?

And btw, wasn't your housemate the one who told the others to back off? By that it would seem she was interested in you but her reaction when you talked to her showed the complete opposite, what the heck goes on their little minds...

Anyway I think you did the right thing, better off like this than having to be concerned all the time by that secrecy and shit.

 

This, Women are so damn confusing. They say one thing, mean another, then say a completely other thing and don't follow through.OH:

I'm not saying all guys are straightforward but can't women be straightforward? (and I know the answer is NO") lol

 

Fuck em all fella's till you wanna have kids... thats why god gave us opposable thumbs!

 

Indeed, grow some bollocks and be a man. Confidence is a very attractive feature for women. If you don't love yourself then no one else will. When I was in my twenties, I was too geeky and shy, and when I was in my early thirties and confident, I was finding that picking up twenty somethings very easy.

(This was a responce to K-Pangggs message after Barcodes reply, but it works with Twimfys message too....)

Some women just don't want anything yet, but do like sex. If she doesn't want you then maybe ask her directly and then at least you'll see where the ground lies and you can go off and have more sex, er I mean find a proper relationship...

 

your best chances of getting action again:
1: you play hard to get
2: go fuck someone else hotter than her, or has a feature she lacks
3: alcohol
4: all of the above, FTW.

Oh, ande pictures please.

It maybe superficial, but it's totally good for you to: get the fuck in shape! Helps the confidence and the appearance.

 

<--impossible to get it shape.
(*insert song about how DDR never got me any*)

Just kidding. About the DDR.


I tried confidence. It really fucked things up. It wasn't like I was about to rape someone or anything, but I did get hit harder than I've ever been hit. Verbally.

Then I get my head twisted in half (intoxicated) with the same fucking person last night, driving out of the city on dirt roads and then back again. AND NOTHING FUCKING HAPPENED. WHAT IS GOING ON.
I thought she could have equally left me in the middle of nowhere as a cruel joke, or jumped my bones out in the middle of nowhere as an amazing turn of events. It was either one or the other. Then neither happened. Get home at 4:30AM and couldn't sleep. Still haven't. Didn't eat until midnight tonight. When weird things happen I go way overboard in confusion.

 

Never shit on your own doorstep! If you are going to shag your flat mate then this is the kind of end result you are gonna get!

Frankly, she's obviously not as into you as you are into her. Slap that aftershave on mate and from now on either decide to have some fun or mope around feeling crap - your choice!

And as for women who are a head fuck, frankly they tend to be a lot less deep, complex and interesting than they want to appear. Some women just put up barrier after barrier in an attempt to appear more exciting than they really are.

 

This thread hurts my brain. lol

 

My dad had a saying: You don't shit where you eat....

Sounds like that's what you're doing pal...

 

Meh screwed her again last night and again this morning. Fucking life up is fun.

 

Well enjoy life while you can just don't get her up the duff.