Who's got girl issues?

Cant argue with that.Agreed.

 

ill 3rd and 4th (one for each hole) that

 

Or just read the book or see the movie 'the secret' maybe you can find some help in that.. law of attraction!

 

isnt that all to do with 'fairy moans'? whats a small creature with wings having an orgasm got to do with finding love? (not monkeys this time!)

k, im gonna stop talking now before i start offending people!

 

GodofHardcore:

Yeah, we all have (had) girl issues. I'm no expert on women by any means, but some things I've come to understand: If you have no friends, you probably won't get a girlfriend, either. So make sure you are doing things with several different groups of friends outside of the house... relationships start up that way.

I'm definitely all for not trying too hard and just letting random chance put girls in your path; HOWEVER, if you live in a really small town (like I currently do), your chances are that much slimmer, so I say make sure you're in a place where meetings with girls your age actually has a chance of happening. In the past 6 months in my city, I hadn't had a single flirt or anything with a girl, but only the second time I went out drinking/dancing in the much larger city south of where I live, I met 2 girls that seemed interested in me.

And as far as girls falling for assholes, yeah, that's happened since the beginning of time, and I have no solution to that problem.

 

Why are people so focused on having common interests? Imo, the only thing you should have in common is an interest in each other, and then it will all work out.

 

Usually things are meant to be and just happen. If you chase women then they probably aren't that interested to begin with. IMO the best relationships start from a friendship with shared interests, so make friends with a bunch of women, keep it plutonic to start with and either things will happen or they'll introduce you to other women that you have more of a chance with. You'll learn more about women by having more female friends and they'll offer you advice, maybe even fix you up. The worst thing you can do is turn things into a mission to get laid or start a relationship. Desperation is an ugly thing. Just be yourself and keep it relaxed.

Maybe there are some gaming clubs or some hobbiest stuff in the local area that you could join? Are you into anything niche? Movie clubs? Photography? Evening courses (perhaps foreign language)? It might sound corny/the potential for uber nerd encounters, but at least you'll be with people that like the same stuff. That's not essential but sharing a common set of ideals and morals definitely is, and getting to know the person before you try to turn it into a relationship is the best way to make that happen.

I've never met anyone who's had a happy long term relationship with someone he picked up in a bar/nightclub. I'm sure it happens, but bleh. A lot of people meet online these days too. A great deal meet at work also.

 

Correct but the majority of women are very critical against "geeky" stuff, so much they think of it as a guy's con that must be destroyed. Check my sig. ;p

Hell no. Friendship in the beginning ruins it all, they get disappointed as like you lied to them when you get to the point after they think of you as a friend.

 

To my understanding it's mostly about positive thinking and attracting positive things to yourself, I think you are confured with something else?

Anyway ignore the whole 'oooohh this is a big secret thing' and just read what it's about as roughly it's not that bad and they make a few good points:

http://www.thesecret.tv/home.html

 

I'm not saying you wait 5 months then jump on female friends. You can usually tell if there is more between you than just friendship and if that is there then it's all good.

Obviously if she thinks you're just being friendly to get into her pants then things are going to get ugly. Unless she wants the same thing, ofc :lol:

 

Yes, but if it's very short I wouldn't call it friendship, rather an "intro" of the relationship and it should always last less than a month.
So if you get the "I thought we were friends" reaction you have the month-limit excuse of "friends? we just know each other for less than a month".:lol:

 

You greeks are lady killers! :lol:

 

I don't see the problem with hitting it off with a friend, as long as you didn't become their friend for that reason. But things can change during the course of a friendship, certain feelings can rise that weren't there before.

 

This reminds me of a great joke.

"What do you tell a woman w/ two black eyes?"

 

http://news.filefront.com/guide-on-how-to-keep-a-girl-for-gamers/

that will help you out alot, seriously why do you need a gamer girl? poon is poon.

 

19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then punch her in the face. Girls
love a spontaneous guy.
LOL'd

 

The "friend zone" theory is bullshit if you have a set of balls and the girl you're looking to be with isn't a dumbass (not including the mutual attraction part; that's a necessity).

 

girls like getting joked around with etc. always works

 

I apprecate the advice

 

So why not try to answer my joke (posted above)?