A very very sad day

And when she's down for the count...teabag her. (Hey, it works in FPS...)

 

Not sure if your definition of teabagging is the same as mine - seems a strange way to initiate a divorce....(Though maybe one that would work?!?)

 

I was thinking more of a finale rather than a beginning...though if used as a beginning, could that be considered "throwing down the gauntlet"? (*Goes to ask Uncle Gary (Busey)*)

Back on topic, be mindful of the child(ren), but don't allow her to use them as any kind of leverage...I've seen that happen a few times, and things got ugly in a hurry.

 

Well our bedroom is always such a mess with her leaving stuff everywhere, wardrobe doors always open, not a biggy, but is so damn annoying, especially when she complains to the kids about their stuff

Anyway one of the wardrobe doors was open and some of stuff half falling out and I saw a cassette on the floor......odd don`t see many of these now a days, so thougt, wonder what sort of music she is listening to, or is it some silly Karoake she has done with her mates when on one of her visits home

No it is a tape recording of some tarot card or spiritualist etc and in amongst it is, there is talk of "another person, they are not married, but are living with someone"

So the head & heart hit the floor.....despite having my suspicions earlier over the week-end as per my previous post

h: OH: :crying:


As for the kids I would desparately want to keep them as I love them to bits and I know they love me

Especially now as my daughter has been having a moan at my wife for chatting on the phone to freinds/texting/watching soaps/having a bath/reading books/sleeping

 

Virtual Alan, i don't believe i can give you better advices than what the other said, but always have your children in mind. It may help you to do all that have to be done.
After all, as you said, it's the absolute priority

Good luck, and go forward.
There is always a light at the end of a tunnel


less seriously: And Evilways, teabaging is a good idea:lol:

 

Infidelity generally doesn't matter in the US. You can fuck around on your husband and still get alimony. I don't know about our twisted cousins' laws in the UK, but I assume it's similar. Whomever gets sole custody of the kids will be getting a check to go along with it. It is, indeed about the kids, afterall.

Kids need a mother just as much as a father. I'm not into gut-spilling or life altering advice giving on the internet, but you guys should seriously put your differences aside and figure out a way where you can both spend somewhat equal time.

 

The divorce laws are really set up to put the man essentially into indentured servitude, as far as I'm concerned.

I don't know man. Rent a car and flee the country.

 

The laws are set up so the kids don't get fucked. It's not the law makers fault that women are basically Real Doll's that occasionally move (usually to complain).

 

U.S. child custody/visitation laws are so fucked up...especially after what happen to one of my friend's friend (married with two kids of their own, she decides to screw another guy (AND gets knocked up); he finds out and files for divorce and custody based on her bad parenting, such as leaving them at a mall, or at my friend's front doorstep as she drives off, etc. but she ends up with the kids and he gets visitation rights (he gets to have them to himself for the summer, but they stay with her during the school year). FWIW, she didn't get to hold the new baby till they drew baby's blood for court-ordered DNA test, as Wisconsin doesn't allow custody/divorce hearings if there's an unborn child involved).

How fux0rd is that?

 

About as fucked up for impeaching one president for getting a blow job, and not impeaching the next for war crimes.

 

Amen to that

 

Apparently, he's "pardoned" himself before anything could be done...

 

Yeah, no fucking kidding.

Isn't that sad, what our country has sunk to?