VA where do I start with this one? I am always really sorry to hear when people's marriages fail because I personally know what it's like from previous experience. I know it's pointless me saying "if you need to talk" or "I know how you feel" because right now I suspect all the talking needs to be between you and your wife and even you won't know how you are feeling, so how can anyone else? It's like a bloody massive train wreck when something like this happens. If there is anything I can do, be it just piss off and leave you alone, PM me to have a shouting match or you genuinely need someone to just puzzle this fucking nightmare over with then please do!
Well what to say - if you know it by yourself, you possibly know what the right thing to do is, as hard as it may be. The right way is always the hardest. Keep on going!
Another mate of mine is going through the same thing now, get your arse over to Cardiff one weekend and I will see you right. You will be alright eventually, even if it seems a bloody long way away at the moment.
sorry to hear that VA, but marriage isnt everything, happiness is though, be strong, get through it, and move on
My brothers going through the same crap right now. Just take it easy, find yourself and do whatever you can to better your life.
No sense in fighting it: Head to the pub. Hope you don't have any kids. Sucks for everyone in that situation (especially the kids).
I`m very sorry and would like to echo the sentiments of the others. I hope it may be a small comfort to know you have such support here.
Sorry to hear that man. Don't really know what to say other than to just go do something to blow off some steam.