Dating in Japan: the reality.

Discussion in 'Japan Forum: Living there or planning a visit.' started by ASSEMbler, May 25, 2009.

  1. Bramsworth

    Bramsworth Well Known Member

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    Never know if they just think any foreigners are somehow gonna make their life better and they just want to mooch off of you. Hard reality, but I bet something like that happens to lots of guys who then start going into bliss about having a looker, not really knowing the girl could give less than two shits for the guy himself.

    Or I'm cynical and only expect the worst of people..
     
  2. Kron

    Kron Gutsy Member

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    Yahooooo Marry-desuuuu!

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  3. GaijinPunch

    GaijinPunch Lemon Party Organizer and Promoter

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    Fixed
     
  4. Shanesaw

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    I'm an ugly aussie bloke and I am wondering If newzealanders sound much different when they speak japanese?
    coz if not I just found a way to springboard right up the list as soon as i learn japanese that is coz i thought about this lots of times but i didnt know it was in fact possible to attain my mech body in reality
    Gundam Shanesaw here I come
     
  5. Jamtex

    Jamtex Adult Orientated Mahjong Connoisseur

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    One thinks that one should learn to speak proper english first. :110:
     
  6. Alchy

    Alchy Illustrious Member

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    I hope for your sake this is just the result of too much leftover festive booze.
     
  7. Shanesaw

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    my spoken english is lazy enough but my typing english suffers from EXTREME lazyness and is almost devoid of grammer:)
     
  8. ASSEMbler

    ASSEMbler Administrator Staff Member

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    Always laser hair removal and some plastic surgery.
     
  9. bhl88

    bhl88 Rapidly Rising Member

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    The richer you are, the higher the chances of dating. (6 million yen and above grants you a girlfriend, 500k or less grants you nothing).
     
  10. ASSEMbler

    ASSEMbler Administrator Staff Member

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    Lol.

    That or go to the sticks, and win as the only foreign ass in town.
     
  11. PhantasyStar

    PhantasyStar Well Known Member

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    From my experience, you'll get the high school girls commenting on you, but if you lack the language skills, you might as well say bye-bye.

    Also, if you're like me, you get annoyed at being eye candy for everyone in town -- especially the elderly ones who stare holes through you.
     
  12. gargamel

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    Monstrosities-nerds in their home country become supreme playboys in Japan.
    you can look around you sometimes, and see extreme cases of human horrors dating pure cutties.
    It is difficult to stay single here, even for monsters, except if you are hikikomori.
    Japanese skill helps a lot to keep away english-speaking-gaijin-whores and you can get the non-english-speaking-cute ones, even you are a pork.
    you may get non-english-speaking-gaijin-whores as well, but more rare.
    Even if it is the case, you are her first one most of the time haha :D
    Having money helps the most.because most important things for 90%of J-bitches, is a boyfriend with money!
    you can date Cabarets girls too if you have the cash

    there a ton of possibilities :)Dating here is not difficult.the most difficult is when you get married :rolleyes:
     
  13. Richiro

    Richiro Active Member

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    Agree to this..
    Money buys almost everything.. not just in japan i suppose..
    as they say.. basically everybody hates everybody they aren't..
    but money sure can change a LOT of things..
    In my profession (im in investment consultancy), I've met too many mediocre faced (if not ugly) high net worth people who pretty much can get any girl they want, it's so unfair :rolleyes:
    come to speak of it, many HNW i met are either asian, chinese or middle eastern origin.. i suppose economy really have shifted..
     
  14. GaijinPunch

    GaijinPunch Lemon Party Organizer and Promoter

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  15. ASSEMbler

    ASSEMbler Administrator Staff Member

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    Holy crap, metropolis is still around?


    I've seen that article before, elsewhere.
    either the same one or heavy borrowing.
     
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  16. GaijinPunch

    GaijinPunch Lemon Party Organizer and Promoter

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    It's actually not that old. It was Tokyo Classified for far longer.

    Sounds more like a concoction of forum posts... mostly true but you still see the occasional white jackass pull something several strikes above.
     
  17. Treamcaster

    Treamcaster Intrepid Member

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    I was kinda upset with the girls I find in everyday life... I just came here to see how's it going in Japan... and apparently it's the same sh*t?! I mean, wtf do they want?
     
  18. ASSEMbler

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    money
    stability of lifestyle
    good conversation
    looks
     
  19. Treamcaster

    Treamcaster Intrepid Member

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    What about love, and someone who really cares about them?
     
  20. Bramsworth

    Bramsworth Well Known Member

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    You watch too much TV ;-)
     
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